As some of you suggested I will write in English from now on because I need to practice, and morever after what you are going to read next!
Please, my English native friends or English expert friends, forgive my mistakes and be indulgent with me (you have the right and the duty to correct me).
So let's go back to the SF story:
in French we say: quand les oiseaux chantent, après ils déchantent - after the birds have sung, they stop singing ! that's what I am going through!
Guess what: my hostess I just met an hour ago is just a young Eastern witch, with a strong sort of Russian accent, she is from Moldavia. She opened the door without a look at me. The two young daughters of her companion are staying with her (10 and 12 years old) because, guess what: the companion is a nurse in a psychiatric hospital 3 hours from SF so he is away 4 days a week. The poor little girls have nothing to do except stay in their bedroom to watch TV on a giant screen in front of their bed. We are in a supposed lovely house with a lovely garden in the near suburb of SF and guess what: they never eat outside because it is too cold! (I just got a sunburn today walking along the street). There is a supposed living room in the house and guess what: there is no couch, sofa or even chairs to sit on! Only a closed piano and a cupboard, with a view of the neighbours'wall, which anyway we do not see because the blinds are lowered and closed. I wanted to have a cigarette in the garden to relax and guess what: it is strictly forbidden to smoke even in the garden because it is not good for the children! So I go back to my room ( because I am not invited to have a drink in the living room which does not exist, and furthermore she seems to be disapointed that I have nothing planned tonight!) and try to get connected to REAL persons! So I ask for the wifi code and guess what : she won't give it to me because you never know what I could do with it, so she told me she would type it herself in my computer. So I wait for her in my room so that she can type the code herself... and guess what: she never came, because she was waiting for me to bring my computer to her! I think we are going to be very good friend.
The good news is that she hosts two other sudents, and guess what: they are away for the week-end (which I now completely understand).
I have to tell you about my house: very neat and clean, in a street that could be compared to Wisteria lane, the famous desperate houswifes' street (a famousTv show for those who might not know).
My wonderful Moldavian Cristina is about 30, tall, thin, blue eyes, long blond air, but she looks like a grey spider.
She prepared diner for the 4 of us last night. It was not the gin & tonic welcome diner party I had expected but well! We had a very good plate of nice vegies+ rice + chinese dish. But no drinks at all (no glasses on the table) and no desert (a fruit would have been welcome). It was ready at 8. We were finished at 8:15! Because I tried to chat with the two adorable little girls.
After that, I asked if there might be a family television I could watch, to make up for the Russian accent and the lack of English listening. But no, there is none, the only TV is in the girls' bedroom. And there is no living room as I said previously, only a passing room. But I can Watch TV on my computer. Of course!
After that I was given the rules: I shall not go back home after 10 pm at night during the week, because it wakes up the girls (of course, they live in the former living room separated to the corridor by a wood panel!).
And the best of all, I want you to open wide your ears because I am sure you have never lived such a welcoming attitude:
I asked If I could make a cup of tea, anytime. I was told that students are not allowed to use the kitchen utensils, nor are they to open the fridge. So if I want a cup of tea, I should go to the mall (a 15 mns walk) or to the gaz station which is closer!!!
At that point, I fell down and burst into tears... No , I just said "ok I understand ". Period.
So this is the bright golden jail I live in! This is not a nightmare, This is my real life!
Well, as you can see I do not know how long I will be able to bear this situation!
I wish you all a wonderfull sunny sunday, mine might be a long long one!